#EverydayLookism

Stories

Story 280
“ Look at you - you have no control over yourself. You are pathetic.
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Story 279
“ "It's a shame about her face as she has an amazing body" - Said by a friend.
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Story 278
“ "You are definitely overweight and need to lose weight." - Said to me when I was 11 years old by a grown woman.
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Story 277
“ I always describe my mother as being round and having troll feet! I do it in a joking way and she truly does not mind but I am wondering if this gives a negative signal to my children that shaming is okay as long as it's funny.
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Story 276
“ He has a face like half a pound of slapped tripe!
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Story 275
“ "You'll have to dye your hair now as you have a few grey hairs." - A colleague
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Story 274
“ "Ah you've straightened your hair - it's nice to see you make an effort." - Said by my manager on a night out.
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Story 273
“ Overhearing colleagues talking about how disgusting under arm hair is - and shaming people who let theirs grow.
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Story 272
“ My boyfriend's mom, when I was 15, said that she had never been as big as me even when she was pregnant.
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Story 271
“ You would be so attractive if you lost some weight.
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Story 270
“ Brush your eyebrows, you look messy.
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Story 269
“ You look too thin.
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Story 268
“ I'll think about it, but please remember that I'm not used to dating ugly and fat girls.
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Story 267
“ Why are you surprised? You're single because you're ugly and fat. No one will ever want you!
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Story 266
“ "Sorry, it's better to break up, I don't want other people to see us together." "Why?" "Because you're fat."
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Story 265
“ Give me a call when you've finished your diet.
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Story 264
“ I'm happy you finally decided to lose weight and do something with your body.
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Story 263
“ You're a Ferrari hidden in a Toyota.
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Story 262
“ Yeah, well you have stretch marks.
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Story 261
“ You are fat.
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Story 260
“ You've got circles under your eyes.
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Story 259
“ Did you get glasses so he wouldn’t fancy you anymore?
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Story 258
“ Girls who wear make-up are fake.
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Story 257
“ You've got airbags for an ass.
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Story 256
“ I can't work out if she looks more like a witch or like Hagrid.
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Story 255
“ I won't be attracted to you if you gain weight.
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Story 254
“ Do you think you look like an athlete? Losing some weight might make you faster.
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Story 253
“ Whilst eating a chocolate bar a guy three years older than me said "a moment on the lips, a lifetime on the hips."
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Story 252
“ She'd look better if she wore a bag over her head.
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Story 251
“ Your nose is like a mountain.
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Story 250
“ People will like you AFTER you speak to them, not before.
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Story 249
“ "Oh look, it's cellullite Sally" My name is not even Sally.
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Story 248
“ If you put more effort in you would DEFINITELY be prettier.
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Story 247
“ "Urgh, why would you do that to yourself?" - In response to flexing my biceps and lats.
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Story 246
“ You look so skinny, like not in a good way. You can see your ribs.
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Story 245
“ She's so flat chested, she looks like a man.
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Has a comment about how you look ever made you feel bad?
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Story 244
“ As a teenager, perhaps 12 or 13, a boy pointed at my bare legs and laughed at how hairy they were. Everyone around me joined him in laughing at me. I felt utterly ashamed. I had up until this point not even noticed. That was the last time... I've probably thought about my body hair everyday for 20 years.
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Story 243
“ That'll look really nice on you once you've lost some weight.
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Story 242
“ You have a monobrow and it's disgusting.
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Story 241
“ "It's okay that you're not that fit because you're actually quite funny." - Said by some male friends as school
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Story 240
“ Please go to the gym because I'd fancy you more.
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Story 239
“ Don’t invite her, she will eat all of the food at the buffet.
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Story 238
“ She's always been a bigger girl.
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Story 237
“ You look so much better now that you aren’t porky and ginger.
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Story 236
“ You've gone so grey - shouldn't you colour your hair?
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Story 235
“ "You've gained weight, are you pregnant?" "No." "Are you sure?" - Said by a female colleague.
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Story 234
“ "You should wear more sexy dresses at work you look like an old woman!" - Said by a female colleague at work.
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Story 233
“ "You've gained weight, you look different, I didn't recognise you! I think its because you've got married and you're less careful about your body." - Said by a male Professor at law school.
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Story 232
“ I know you're really fit and have been doing lots of exercise, but isn't it a shame that it makes your thighs so bulky.
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Story 231
“ Moley, moley, moley.
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Story 230
“ I used to be nicknamed 'cookie face' because my face is so round and the blemishes are like chocolate.
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Story 229
“ A dermatologist asked me if I was a lesbian because I had facial hair on my top lip.
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Story 228
“ "You know there is such a thing as shaving." - 11 year old male cousin to 11 year old me about my upper lip.
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Story 227
“ Male doctor after breast exam - "I can see you've lost weight since your last mammogram. Oh! You're getting married? Congratulations! Can I suggest you get a boob job when you've lost as much as you want to lose - your husband will thank you for it."
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Story 226
“ "Put some make up on so it looks like you've made an effort." - From my Grandma.
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Story 225
“ "You'll never get a boyfriend if you don't lose weight!" - From my Father.
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Story 224
“ "Can I give you some unsolicited fashion advice?" (Before I can refuse) "You'd look so much better if you bought a better bra." - A Female colleague.
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Story 223
“ Can I please wax your upper lip because it's annoying me.
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Story 222
“ If I looked like you I would worry more about my weight.
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Story 221
“ You can't wear that because you're too curvy.
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